It has been a long time since I have posted about Sam. Much too long. School ends in less than two weeks and I can't believe the growth that has happened over his first year in high school. I can hardly remember the nerves and anxiety of sending him off to a very unknown place. There have definitely been ups and downs. Choir has been a great addition to his schedule, earning advanced on his EOC's was a boost to academic confidence, and winning the 3 on 3 March Madness competition was great fun. But, not making the basketball team back in October was a hurdle to overcome. Yet, in the end, I think it may have been the best thing for him. He has been able to focus so much more on school and piano.
Which brings me to this post.
Last night was Sam's piano recital and boy was it a recital: 33 kids and 2-plus hours. Needless to say, it was a tad bit painful. Sam was sitting up front and I wondered if he was dying of boredom. At one point, Ron leaned over and asked if I thought Sam was comparing himself to the other kids, wondering if he was the best one there. I honestly said, no. I think it probably never even occurred to Sam. I watched as he sat and clapped and waited and waited. There were lots of kids in front of him and I saw him cheer for others with very different skill levels. As we sat there, I thought back at Sam's year and who he is. Sam has a quiet way about him and with humility, he is almost unable to see other's faults or weaknesses.
I love that about him.
As I look back over the year, I see times when Sam has been wronged, or left behind. It is sad to say, but I am usually the one who is more upset and ready to pounce. I am grateful to have Sam to teach me that others make mistakes too, and kindness and giving others a second chance is always the right way.
For the recital, Sam played a piece by Jon Schmidt that was a little stretch for him and also introduced the Baptist church chapel to "Called to Serve." He did a fantastic job and I was really amazed at his ability to carry humility and kindness in his demeanor. I couldn't help but think as he played, that all of the qualities he showed that night will be put to great use as a missionary and as he continues to grow and learn.
Congrats on a job very well done, Sam. I love the man you are becoming.
2 comments:
So sad I did not get to go to Sam's recital. I am so proud of him. It was a real treat for me to be able to go to his choir rehearsal when I was there. He is part of a wonderful choir which may be a fun part of his high school the coming years.
That's so awesome. He's a great kid. You're such a good mom - thanks for the glimpse.
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